What products and methods should I use on my blonde, fragile, abormally frizzy, curly hair?

My hair is not normal. I have what is affectionately referred to as a "Jew 'fro". But it's much frizzier and tighter curled, than the average Jewish curly mane. It's this uncontrollable, erratic, frizzy Z curl that I can do nothing with! It's extremely course. It feels like fiberglass. Constantly tangles! (My hair is long. Short becomes an afro.) I always use either moisturizing or anti-frizz shampoos and conditioners and leave-in conditioners and anti-frizz treatments and they don't help. I also don't wash my hair every day as that would be too drying. I'm at a loss. My hair is also very fragile and breaks constantly, even with a wide toothed comb. And tons of my hair comes out in the shower. It's aweful! Because I am blonde, I have no melanin to give added strength. They never know what to do with my hair at salons as they aren't used to dealing with my hair type. Any advice on what I can do or use? And how can I keep it detangled daily, without having to wash it daily?

What products and methods should I use on my blonde, fragile, abormally frizzy, curly hair?

Ok girl you need 2 products.

#1 PROTIEN. go to a SALON not your local drug store. you need the good stuff. Ask for a protien treatment. this will make your hair stronger.

#2 MOISTURE. again go to a SALON and ask for a moisture treatment. if you just use the protien your hair will become so strong that it just breaks, so you need moisture to make it soft and managable.

Hair care is simple and finite. stick with a simple routine and your mane will shine. oh speaking of shine, grab a cheap hair serum like friz ease and use it after or while blow drying to add shine and nix frizz.

What products and methods should I use on my blonde, fragile, abormally frizzy, curly hair?

girl go to victoria secret and tey got the perfect solution for you. i had the same problem,but difference i'm not blond.

What products and methods should I use on my blonde, fragile, abormally frizzy, curly hair?

i suggest using all matrix/biolage products

they are great for your hair type, everything from shampoo to straightening gel

What products and methods should I use on my blonde, fragile, abormally frizzy, curly hair?

REDKEN has a wonderful product out now call fresh curls. Go to a salon and get some they have sham, cond, leave in cond, anti frizz shiner. I got my friend a trial pack and she loved it all.

What products and methods should I use on my blonde, fragile, abormally frizzy, curly hair?

I know that Infusion for tangles works great and you can use it everyday just put it in a spray bottle add a little water if you want and spray it all over. And for the frizz I use the oil treatments that they have at Walmart you can use both at the same time.